Today looked through two things. at great depth as they both on surface seemed worthy exploring the help requests.
The first one..... although stated as concrete, came down to nothing I could constructively do or suggest to get the resolution that the person wanted. So it was something I wouldnt try at.
The second one, someone had tried to put me into helping them so it wasnt them doing the "work" and it was full of contradiction, looked very devious and I wasnt therefore going to delve into that one either.
There are times to say NO!
But I looked into both. Maybe I should refine my gut even further....